Greetings from SoHo, Manhattan,New York City. It is Winter over here, so the heater is on, I am in my fuzzy socks while sipping whiskey neat. Heaven knows Bourbon would have come in handy but I shall take it in stride honey, I always do. It’s been long since I journaled, I must admit. I wasn’t really AWOL per se, I just got caught up between wearing panties and running responsibilities. I couldn’t get the best of both worlds so I had to do away with the panties and commit to my responsibility. Tough love.
I am rather intrigued by the happenings of last year (needless to say). Whilst at my ran de vous someone asked , ” Which is better; To lose a lover or to love a loser?”. Hold up! Does Lazy Nancy know such a phrase exists?. Anyways I briskly thought to myself, Love a loser?. For there are moments that cannot be felt twice, like mourning the loss of a loved one.
Remember the 1957 show that starred Audrey Hepburn Titled Love In The Afternoon? Well I fell in love on a Sunday afternoon in October. Nothing out of the ordinary. I just decided to give someone’s son a chance. lol you go Dude! Mad props to you though. You beat my comfortable. Still learning how to maneuver. I heard love is a flower that needs to be cultivated every now and then, well I don’t plan to do the digging , can’t be hoeing around with a hoe, maybe a machete, You dig? Double entendre.
He who marries will have trouble. I believe it is in the Bible 1Cor 7:28. Let me spare you the agony of reading further because the only thing that I know is that I know nothing. However, fancy me writing to you. The only thing standing between a woman and a ring is her damn self. No body fears commitment ,especially women, don’t we all just fear wasting time especially with a L*? Wait the L word is for loser .Silly.
When is a man considered a loser? And could a woman be a loser too? Walk with me!
I have loved and I have lost. But I ain’t a loser. There is a reason why men do not marry a certain breed of women and there is a very big difference between the men women date and the men women marry. Most women however, marry losers , that’s all they can/could do when the only thing standing between a woman and poverty is a loser.
Most men are losers, loose brains, loose tongues, sticky loose hands, loose libido, loose eyes, loose morals, loose repertoire, loose everything.
Most women however, marry losers but they don’t date them. Maybe I should’ve said. Chivalry isn’t dead some women started settling for a lot less. But some women date losers and marry them because they are NEEDY. They cling to the man even though he beats belittles and rapes them. They will even go ahead and carry an infant for such a loser hoping against hope that they will change the losers one day. Woman, Simma down! You can’t teach a dog how to speak. Throwing caution to the wind. Could the equality rule strike here please? She who dates and marries a loser is also a loser. Since society sees men as losers and women as the misguided lot.
Then there are women who will just not marry and when asked why, apparently all the good ones are taken already. When a cute guy asks them out they see trouble. Afraid that other women might find the guy attractive and they will be all over him and vice versa. If he is a loser you know what. Bless your soul milady and worry not woman, you me both but sorry you are the one to die single and miserable for I had rather marry myself.
But better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.
Of course women cheat as much as men cheat too. Relationcheats. Then there are women won’t also marry because they are having a taste of their own medicine. You home wreckers hoehoehoe(laughs hoeishly)
I was taught that, Little girls with dreams grow into women with visions but some ladies with missions never grow into women with visions. Good women leave the table when love is no longer being served. Why? Because water finds its own level. Rather fours end up with fours and twos end up with twos. I know a latitude could be involved where the guy is a six and the woman is a 4 but eventually it narrows down and comes to a level.
Women marry losers and men marry loose women. As for men who marry loose women, girls who like to pick up strangers and fuck them at the parking lot will do so before and after the wedding. It’s the Madonna prostitute complex. Habits die hard. You will never ride in and rescue the hooker from her depraved life and your love cannot show her that she needs you more than heroin. Boy nothing beats heroin. Nothing.
Rational people avoid losers or sluts because eventually they want to be proud of their other half and show them off to their frenemies. It’s part of the joy of getting married. Good bye for now I ran out of wit.
Love peace and Happiness.